Cut Your Losses
During my very short years here on earth, I have noticed that women tend to be very emotional about a lot of things. Let me explain: as women our buildup naturally causes us to be more emotional than men. That being the case, it’s difficult for some of us to let go; we think we have to be there for everyone and a lot of times we put up with nonsense just because we don’t want to hurt anyone. The truth of the matter is, sometimes in life you’ve just got to cut your losses.
When something is not working out or a horrible incident occurs, we need to learn how to move past it. Take for instance friendship. What do you do when it is falling apart? I mean after you have done all you can and it still seems you are the only one in the friendship, I really believe it is time for the next step. Do not allow anybody to let you feel you can’t go on with your life without them. If it is not working out, as difficult as it may be and trust me it will be hard, you have to let it go.
As women, we feel the pressure all the time to be there and be everything for everybody. Unfortunately, that is not humanly possible. There comes a point when you have to take time out for you because you need care too. For anyone who doesn’t understand that and neither appreciate you, then girl just cut them lose and keep your life moving. You don’t have to put up with any nonsense from anyone. Life is too short to be fussing because of other people or circumstances; it is not worth it. If people want to walk out of your life, please cut them lose.
No matter what hand life has dealt you, always remember that as a woman you possess phenomenal strength to overcome any and everything. Philippians 4:13 says it best: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” No matter what, always stay true to who you are and remember, if you have to, cut your losses.